So you’re wondering whether to buy Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever.
Good. I’m a man, and I’m going to tell you all about it so you can decide how useful it might be in your search for a loving relationship.
I’m going to tell you what’s in it, and what I think about what’s in it (from a man’s point of view), so you can decide whether to buy it or not.
Come with me on this fascinating journey….
Here, I’m simply reviewing the dating and relationship advice for women contained in the main sections of the Capture His Heart program – not the optional add-on bonuses. You can find lots of information about the bonuses on the links at the top and side of this page.
Off we go!
When you buy the program, you receive some welcome emails, telling you how to access the program. You then sign into your own private “admin area”.
Here, you can connect with other women in the program, get a hot line to the support desk, and check out the content of Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.
This is a screenshot of my admin area: you can see my name, Rod M Phillips, at the top left hand side. I feel like an interloper. This feels like women’s business! Still, I like an adventure….
Now, this all looks very professionally set up (always a good sign). As you can see, you get four parts, which looks like great value for money … but just what are they?
The 4 sections of the main material (excluding bonuses) in Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever are:
Part 1 Unlocking His Head And Looking Inside
Part 2 Unleashing Your Inner Siren
Part 3 Holy Sh*t, It’s Working, Now What?
Part 4 Keep Him Panting At Your Feet, Forever!
Here we go…. stand by for an exciting ride! Read on below to find out more about this crucial relationship information for women.
Capture His Heart Reviewed
Part 1 Unlocking His Head And Looking Inside
And when you click on this, you see this is divided into several sections:
a) Introduction to the whole program “Capture His Heart & Make Him Love You Forever” – which is a review of the contents & a review of how it all works.
b) The Quiz – a way to find out everything about yourself that might be holding you back from a relationship.
c) Why Men Love to Chase Women – facts about men you may never have imagined. Hint: Vital information.
d) The Secret Invisible Obstacle Course – information about why men may not be showing much interest in you. Hint: Vital information.
e) Burn Your “Perfect Man” Checklist, then Stomp on the Ashes – what’s wrong with the Law of Attraction philosophy & why it doesn’t always work. Hint: Vital information.
Ok, so let’s go! The first part, section (a) is – as you can see – an introduction to Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever.
So we all love quizzes, and I’m guessing you’re going to really like this one!
Completed in private, analyzed in private, this quiz serves two purposes. First, it it gives you a benchmark with which you can compare every aspect of your personality NOW and AT THE END of the program (my dear, how much you’ve changed!)
Second, it helps you understand so much about how you present yourself to the world right now.
Once you’ve done it, which takes about 10 minutes, you can ask for your results to be emailed to you, and then you can dive straight into the rest of the program.
So what comes next? Why, believe it or not, it’s information about why men love to chase women!
Now as a man, and as a relationship counselor, I have an inside track on this!
So I looked at what the author of Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, Claire Casey, says with both personal and professional interest. How accurate was she going to be?
Well I can tell you something — and I’m not particularly happy about admitting it — I was pretty shocked by what she said.
The essence of it is that men are motivated by adventure and excitement and challenge. That’s the simple version, but it’ll do.
So what? Read on. It will all become clear.
In a way doesn’t really matter what that challenge is, although Casey spells it out in a dramatic sort of way in Capture His Heart: “Most men are living in Manhattan or Anyville and they spend their days working for a living, searching for the remote, and thinking about all the women they aren’t having sex with. And yet they are hard-wired for that caveman, arctic explorer, alligator-wrestling, superhero kind of life.”
Get this: she’s bang on. I’ve helped to run men’s weekends for over six years now, and they’re pretty challenging.
Everytime I see a group of nerdy guys wearing sandals and shorts getting off the bus, I readjust my thinking, and remind myself that by the end of the weekend these guys will be muddy, dirty, pumped up, and they’ll be feeling like they’re living right in their own masculinity. Like they’ve done something. Something that matters to them. They’ll be happy, fulfilled and satisfied. They’ll feel great!
And guess what? What do men want as a reward for facing adventure, excitement, challenge? They want the respect, admiration, and acceptance of a woman. Along with the joys and challenges that brings.
See, it’s on YouTube, too.
So: Claire Casey is bang on with point 1: Men love to chase, period.
And they long to explore. They want to overcome. They’re driven to accomplish. And in the end, they do it for the succulent, delectable rewards of a woman.
I was a bit shocked at this stage, I have to admit. I didn’t think Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever was going to be this accurate. I had a slight inner sense of some important male secret being let out of the bag…..
And the point is this: you, as a woman, need to keep the chase going.
Yep, just like women have been doing for millenia….. and Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever is full of dating tips and relationship advice that will help you do just that.
Sure, that might not be the same chase as the one he went on when you captured his interest for the first time.
But keeping a chase going, perhaps in a more intimate and romantic way, is what keeps a man excited and interested and fires a constant erotic tension, smouldering at the foundations of your relationship.
I’ll tell you this: as a man, I know Claire’s 100% right about this.
Now let’s see what she goes on to say….
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The next section is The Secret Invisible Obstacle Course. In other words – Semi-secret obstacles that are keeping the man of your dreams from finding you and making a mad rush to win your attention.
What Capturing His Heart Seizes As Prisoner!
So what Claire Casey’s saying here is that there are some reasons why men find it difficult to get together with women. For example, they might be — gosh, don’t speak it aloud – secretly terrified.
You know why men are scared about approaching women? An interesting question isn’t it?
Regrettably I have to admit she’s right again: men are often scared of getting in too deep with a woman because they don’t know how to deal with feelings — yours, and theirs.
Men are much more about doing things than feeling things. (Unless, that is, they’ve been on one of my men’s weekends!) However, as a principle, Claire’s correct.
She lists a total of seven secret obstacles that stop men approaching women — and that includes you. Happily, she also tells you what to do about them.
But I’m not going to tell you what they are, because this is only a basic outline of the contents of Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You For Ever – and from a male point of view.
You’ll have to get it and read this dating advice for yourself.
What I will say is that of Casey’s seven secret obstacles that might stop you meeting men (like men are too scared to approach you), there’s only one of them that I basically don’t agree with.
That’s secret obstacle number 3: “He’s soft on the inside but can’t let anyone know.” In other words, he’ll never reveal his inner self.
I’ve run loads of men’s groups, and I know men will absolutely confide in each other about their deepest hopes beliefs and feelings.
What I think Claire has got wrong here is that things have to be set up in a certain way for a man to do this: a woman does this sharing naturally, but a man needs certain things before he’s ready to open up about himself and spill his innermost secrets.
Buy this program and see if you think I’m right. But just in case Claire’s looking for an answer on this, I’ll say this: a man will open up when he’s with people he trusts not to judge him, not to criticize him, not to try and fix or change him, and who will accept him just as he is. (Ladies – note the bit about changing him.)
What men want in this kind of situation more than anything else is the validation of being heard.
There, I might have given you a useful tip: men don’t want to be fixed any more than you do!
Finally, in this part of the Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever, Claire tells you to burn your “perfect man” check list then stomp on the ashes.
Well, this is all about the Law of Attraction. As she says, some of these programs can be awesome, but she’s also dead right that if you’re visualizing the perfect man, and being really specific about what you want, you probably won’t get anything. Simply because perfection doesn’t exist.
What you’re overlooking, when you try and find the perfect man is how much you reduce the odds of finding a man who loves you.
There are millions of men out there who could totally melt your heart and charge your battery at the same time, without being anything like perfect.
Even more amazing, these men are just like you.They’re all curiously, wonderfully, astonishingly different, and changing and growing every day.
Oh dear: now I’m beginning to get a bit worried. This begins to feel like Claire really does have the inside track on men. I’m not finding a lot so far that I disagree with. In fact, the truth of the matter is this: if you don’t understand men, this is all you need to become a graduate student in no time flat.
This section of Seize His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever ends with some practical advice about drawing a line in the sand, stepping over it, and laying the past to rest. And also, as you step over the line, you can adopt a more personally powerful position.
That’s to say, a life in which you control what happens to you, not in which you’re controlled by other people and their actions. Sounds good, don’t you think?
Summary, so far so good. Truth is, as a man, I think Claire’s doing well so far. I’d say she’s 90+% accurate about men.
Read on to find out what Capture His Heart can reveal about men next. This is beginning to shape up as superb dating advice for women.