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Capture His Heart & Make Him Love You Forever Reviewed – Part 1

So you’re wondering whether to buy Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever.

Good. I’m a man, and I’m going to tell you all about it so you can decide how useful it might be in your search for a loving relationship.

I’m going to tell you what’s in it, and what I think about what’s in it (from a man’s point of view), so you can decide whether to buy it or not.

Come with me on this fascinating journey….

Here, I’m simply reviewing the dating and relationship advice for women contained in the main sections  of the Capture His Heart program – not the optional add-on bonuses. You can find lots of information about the bonuses on the links at the top and side of this page.

Off we go!

When you buy the program, you receive some welcome emails, telling you how to access the program.  You then sign into your own private “admin area”.

Here, you can connect with other women in the program, get a hot line to the support desk, and check out the content of Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever.

This is a screenshot of my admin area: you can see my name, Rod M Phillips, at the top left hand side. I feel like an interloper. This feels like women’s business! Still, I like an adventure….


Now, this all looks very professionally set up (always a good sign). As you can see, you get four parts, which looks like great value for money … but just what are they?

The 4 sections of the main material (excluding bonuses) in Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever are:

Part 1 Unlocking His Head And Looking Inside
Part 2 Unleashing Your Inner Siren
Part 3 Holy Sh*t, It’s Working, Now What?
Part 4 Keep Him Panting At Your Feet, Forever!

Here we go…. stand by for an exciting ride! Read on below to find out more about this crucial relationship information for women.

Capture His Heart Reviewed

Part 1 Unlocking His Head And Looking Inside

And when you click on this, you see this is divided into several sections:

a) Introduction to the whole program “Capture His Heart & Make Him Love You Forever” – which is a review of the contents & a review of how it all works.
b) The Quiz – a way to find out everything about yourself that might be holding you back from a relationship.
c) Why Men Love to Chase Women – facts about men you may never have imagined.  Hint: Vital information.
d) The Secret Invisible Obstacle Course – information about why men may not be showing much interest in you. Hint: Vital information.
e) Burn Your “Perfect Man” Checklist, then Stomp on the Ashes – what’s wrong with the Law of Attraction philosophy & why it doesn’t always work.  Hint: Vital information.

Ok, so let’s go! The first part, section (a) is – as you can see – an introduction to Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever. 


So we all love quizzes, and I’m guessing you’re going to really like this one!

Completed in private, analyzed in private, this quiz serves two purposes. First, it it gives you a benchmark with which you can compare every aspect of your personality NOW and AT THE END of the program (my dear, how much you’ve changed!)

Second, it helps you understand so much about how you present yourself to the world right now.

Once you’ve done it, which takes about 10 minutes, you can ask for your results to be emailed to you, and then you can dive straight into the rest of the program.

So what comes next? Why, believe it or not, it’s information about why men love to chase women!

Now as a man, and as a relationship counselor, I have an inside track on this!

So I looked at what the author of Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever, Claire Casey, says with both personal and professional interest. How accurate was she going to be?

Well I can tell you something — and I’m not particularly happy about admitting it — I was pretty shocked by what she said.

The essence of it is that men are motivated by adventure and excitement and challenge. That’s the simple version, but it’ll do. 

So what? Read on. It will all become clear.

In a way doesn’t really matter what that challenge is, although Casey spells it out in a dramatic sort of way in Capture His Heart: “Most men are living in Manhattan or Anyville and they spend their days working for a living, searching for the remote, and thinking about all the women they aren’t having sex with. And yet they are hard-wired for that caveman, arctic explorer, alligator-wrestling, superhero kind of life.”

Get this: she’s bang on. I’ve helped to run men’s weekends for over six years now, and they’re pretty challenging.

Everytime I see a group of nerdy guys wearing sandals and shorts getting off the bus, I readjust my thinking, and remind myself that by the end of the weekend these guys will be muddy, dirty, pumped up, and they’ll be feeling like they’re living right in their own masculinity. Like they’ve done something. Something that matters to them. They’ll be happy, fulfilled and satisfied. They’ll feel great!

And guess what? What do men want as a reward for facing adventure, excitement, challenge? They want the respect, admiration, and acceptance of a woman. Along with the joys and challenges that brings.

See, it’s on YouTube, too.

So: Claire Casey is bang on with point 1: Men love to chase, period.

And they long to explore. They want to overcome. They’re driven to accomplish. And in the end, they do it for the succulent, delectable rewards of a woman.

I was a bit shocked at this stage, I have to admit. I didn’t think Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever was going to be this accurate. I had a slight inner sense of some important male secret being let out of the bag…..

And the point is this: you, as a woman, need to keep the chase going.

Yep, just like women have been doing for millenia….. and Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever is full of dating tips and relationship advice that will help you do just that.

Sure, that might not be the same chase as the one he went on when you captured his interest for the first time.

But keeping a chase going, perhaps in a more intimate and romantic way, is what keeps a man excited and interested and fires a constant erotic tension, smouldering at the foundations of your relationship.

I’ll tell you this: as a man, I know Claire’s 100% right about this.

Now let’s see what she goes on to say….

More About Capture His Heart 

The next section is The Secret Invisible Obstacle Course. In other words – Semi-secret obstacles that are keeping the man of your dreams from finding you and making a mad rush to win your attention.

What Capturing His Heart Seizes As Prisoner!

So what Claire Casey’s saying here is that there are some reasons why men find it difficult to get together with women. For example, they might be — gosh, don’t speak it aloud – secretly terrified.

You know why men are scared about approaching women? An interesting question isn’t it?

Regrettably I have to admit she’s right again: men are often scared of getting in too deep with a woman because they don’t know how to deal with feelings — yours, and theirs.

Men are much more about doing things than feeling things. (Unless, that is, they’ve been on one of my men’s weekends!) However, as a principle, Claire’s correct.

She lists a total of seven secret obstacles that stop men approaching women — and that includes you. Happily, she also tells you what to do about them.

But I’m not going to tell you what they are, because this is only a basic outline of the contents of Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You For Ever – and from a male point of view.

You’ll have to get it and read this dating advice for yourself.

What I will say is that of Casey’s seven secret obstacles that might stop you meeting men (like men are too scared to approach you), there’s only one of them that I basically don’t agree with.

That’s secret obstacle number 3: “He’s soft on the inside but can’t let anyone know.” In other words, he’ll never reveal his inner self.

I’ve run loads of men’s groups, and I know men will absolutely confide in each other about their deepest hopes beliefs and feelings.

What I think Claire has got wrong here is that things have to be set up in a certain way for a man to do this: a woman does this sharing naturally, but a man needs certain things before he’s ready to open up about himself and spill his innermost secrets.

Buy this program and see if you think I’m right. But just in case Claire’s looking for an answer on this, I’ll say this: a man will open up when he’s with people he trusts not to judge him, not to criticize him, not to try and fix or change him, and who will accept him just as he is. (Ladies – note the bit about changing him.)

What men want in this kind of situation more than anything else is the validation of being heard.

There, I might have given you a useful tip: men don’t want to be fixed any more than you do! 

Finally, in this part of the Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever, Claire tells you to burn your “perfect man” check list then stomp on the ashes.

Well, this is all about the Law of Attraction. As she says, some of these programs can be awesome, but she’s also dead right that if you’re visualizing the perfect man, and being really specific about what you want, you probably won’t get anything. Simply because perfection doesn’t exist.

What you’re overlooking, when you try and find the perfect man is how much you reduce the odds of finding a man who loves you.

There are millions of men out there who could totally melt your heart and charge your battery at the same time, without being anything like perfect.

Even more amazing, these men are just like you.They’re all curiously, wonderfully, astonishingly different, and changing and growing every day.

Oh dear: now I’m beginning to get a bit worried. This begins to feel like Claire really does have the inside track on men. I’m not finding a lot so far that I disagree with. In fact, the truth of the matter is this: if you don’t understand men, this is all you need to become a graduate student in no time flat. 

This section of Seize His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever ends with some practical advice about drawing a line in the sand, stepping over it, and laying the past to rest. And also, as you step over the line, you can adopt a more personally powerful position. 

That’s to say, a life in which you control what happens to you, not in which you’re controlled by other people and their actions. Sounds good, don’t you think?

Summary, so far so good. Truth is, as a man, I think Claire’s doing well so far. I’d say she’s 90+% accurate about men.

Read on to find out what Capture His Heart can reveal about men next. This is beginning to shape up as superb dating advice for women.

Part 2: Unleashing Your Inner Siren

Part 2 Reviewed

Part 2 is called “Unleashing Your Inner Siren”.

That sounds like pretty powerful stuff! So let’s check it out and see if it matches up to the claims.

When you sign into your personalized Capture His Heart dashboard, you’ll find Part 2 is broken up into several sections.

It starts with information about Unleashing Your Inner Siren, which is subtitled “How To Awaken Unsettling Primal Urges In A Man”.

It then moves on to “Wake Up Gorgeous — Eight Hours To Unbelievably Sexy”. This is, as you might have guessed, an eight hour program to make you feel like the beautiful woman you truly are. (Hint: you do it while you sleep…..!)

Last but not least, Part 2 concludes with a section compellingly named “Seven Massive Mistakes To Avoid At All Costs”.

So let’s get going.

Seizing his heart and compelling him to love you forever is going to involve some powerful connections: love, sex, intimacy.

And it’s true, in their most powerful form, these are primal urges.

But what’s Claire Casey saying, when she talks about awakening these primal urges in a man? Does she mean sexual urges? NO! She means the male instinct to woo, seduce, chase and transfix a woman with masculine male energy.

And to do that, she’s talking about you increasing YOUR animal magnetism. Because for men to be interested in you, you have to be interesting.

As she says: “In fact, the more powerful your magnetism (and boy, you are just not going to believe how EASY it is to be magnetic!), the more strong, potent, and sturdy men you will be drawing to you. Little magnet, little men. Strong magnet, strong and exciting men. You’re gonna be incredible, just wait and see. (And it won’t take long…!)”  

That’s what Claire Casey, author of Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever, says.

And like I always say, if you’ve missed the chance to capture men’s hearts in the past, you can always change things, and capture their hearts in the future.

So when you direct all your energy and determination towards making yourself compellingly attractive to men, what do you think will happen?

Absolutely, you’ll attract a lot of men.

And here’s one of the secrets that you need to know before you set out to do: a man really wants a woman who makes him feel good.

Compared to a woman who looks stunning but who isn’t emotionally connected, supportive, or even interested in him, the woman who makes him feel good wins every time. Regardless of what she looks like…

You getting the message? What this kind of connection takes is engagement; in other words, being interested in somebody. So you put your attention on a man. In fact you put it on lots of men. Because the more you put yourself out there and radiate your light and intention to meet good men, the more likely it is to happen. In fact, it becomes a certainty.


Here’s The Secret Of  Getting A Man’s Heart
And Making Him Fall In Love With You 

(Well, one of them, anyway.)

So capturing a man’s heart is about connecting, or engaging with him.

It’s about giving him the confidence to start a conversation with you.

It’s about making him feel you respect him. It’s about making him feel safe to ask the question that all men hesitate to ask because of their fear of rejection: “Would you like to…” (And you can fill in the blank for yourself …see me again, have a drink, come to a movie, enjoy dinner… whatever!)

One of the really important things about this technique, which Claire Casey calls “Amping up your engagement”, is that you shift your attention from negative to positive.

You change the energy from negative self talk to positive projection outwards.

You look engaged and interested in the people around you.

You project a positive personality….

When you do this you open doors of possibility in your future.

Claire Casey provides a blueprint you can use to snag the interest of men around you . It’s like a strategy for getting into conversation without worrying about what you’re going to say. 

It’s a great way to make yourself the most compelling woman in the room, the woman who draws the most interesting and potent men towards her.

So how do I rate this part of Capture His Heart and Make him Love You Forever?

As a man, I have to say she’s completely correct about what men like. (Again.)

Forget for a minute that this might be the same thing women like. Here, we’re talking about how you, as a woman, are going to get men interested in you.

And the answer is – by being interested in the men around you.  Because, as Casey says, guys are potentially interested in nearly every woman who walks past them, just because she’s a women. (You know that, right?)

But the difference between the women they speak to, the women they’re really interested in, and the women they ignore, is very simple.

Men are interested in women who are interested in them. And Claire Casey’s going to show you how to be one of those women.

sirenIn the post below I’ll reveal some of Claire’s tactics for making yourself into a siren – if you recall the Greek Myths, you’ll know a siren was a mythical creature which sang a song so sweet it could lure any man from his path. But for me, the real meaning of the siren story is about women being irresistible to men.

Now, let’s look at how you might achieve this for yourself!

Part 4: Keep Him Forever Interested & Passionate – IN YOU!

Let’s get straight to the heart of the matter. Here’s what you get in Part 4:

1 Getting Your Man To Commit
2 The Two Biggest Sex And Love Questions
3 What’s That Ringing in His Ears… Wedding Bells?
4 Never Quit Letting Him Woo and Win You!

Powerful stuff! But is it any good? Let’s find out…

1 Getting Your Man To Commit

I’ll say this for Claire Casey: no matter how accurate she is about men, she still continues to shock me with the depth of her insights. You know, I think that’s all I’m gonna say about this section. I am a man, after all.

2 The Two Biggest Sex And Love Questions

Question one is: should you have sex on the first date?
Question two is: should you be the first to say I love you?

Oh yes. The two biggies! All I’ll say is that when Clare answers these questions, she shows an insight into male psychology that makes me feel nervous! (And remember, I know something about being a man! I am one!).

She’s got male psychology exactly right. So when she tells you why saying “I love you” before your man says it to you is a really bad idea, take it from me, she’ bang on the nail.

3 What’s that ringing in his ears? Wedding bells?

Here she goes again! The 12 signs that a man is ready for marriage. OK, I’ll let you in on the secrets….

Number one: he’s had his fill of “sowing wild oats” or he’s too disciplined to do that.

You know what? I feel like Claire’s invaded my men’s sexuality workshops and discovered a few secrets that ought never to have been made public!

Because one of the things I know to be true about men is that they are genetically programmed to go through a phase of screwing around in their late teens and early 20s. (But, hey, you know, we all have choice in these things. It’s not compulsory.)

And what should then happen is that a man goes through a stage of emotional development which renders him ready to settle down with one woman; in other words, to put it bluntly, “he’s got it out of his system”.

Now if a guy never grows up, and he’s still tempted to screw every woman he sees … what do you think that means for his chances of staying faithful to you? Yup, you got it.

Ramp them up Claire! Another 11 secret insights into male psychology… but I’m not gonna tell you any more, so you’ll have to get it from your sister!

4 And The Great Big Final Factor: Never Quit Letting Him Woo and Win You

So even when you walk away with a great man, the story isn’t over. The idea is about dating even when you’re in a relationship! You use the tactics you’ve learned in Capture His Heart & Make Him Love You Forever.

Yes, the techniques, tricks, and strategies that keep you learn in this program can keep your man interested in you way past dating and on into your relationship, into commitment, possibly marriage, certainly into “happy ever after”.

Sure, and I know it takes 2 to tango, but men love to seduce women. Men love to chase women. Men love to be romantic and make wild gestures for women. But to stimulate them to do that, women have to do a certain little something as well. (You seductress, you!)

And then in addition to that, there’s all the regular advice: to keep your man committed, loving you forever, and his heart connected to your heart, wotcha gotta do?

Find out in Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever Right Now!

Wake Up, Gorgeous!

So let me explain what Claire Casey, author of capture his heart, means when she talks about “Wake-Up Gorgeous”.

First of all, she emphasizes that this isn’t about giving you anything you don’t already have. This is actually about giving a wake-up call to the inner beautiful and confident woman you already have hidden away inside you!


So how you access that beautiful gorgeous woman inside you, the one that can be a siren to men, the one who knows all about dating men, and doesn’t actually need relationship advice for women?

(Of course, if she follows her feminine instincts she might not need dating tips, but wise relationship advice never goes amiss. That’s where Capture His Heart and make him Love You Forever comes in.)

Fortunately, you have Claire Casey on hand to help!

There are eight “lessons” in this section (this is nothing like school, LOL!), but the great thing is that there’s not a lot for you to do, because most of the work is done whilst you’re asleep.

You go through the “lessons” and choose the ones that you most need to focus on right now: then Claire shows you a special process of implanting that lesson, that motto, that piece of dating advice, that information about what a beautiful woman you are, into your subconscious before you go to sleep. Now, how easy is that!

When you wake up, you’ll be primed and ready to be your gorgeous new man-magnet self.

A Man’s View On Capturing A Man’s Heart & Making Him Love You Eternally!

I understand you might have some questions about this. So let me tell you something, as a man.

The women I want to be with is the woman who makes me feel good. The woman who’s confident about her own beauty and her own attractiveness — and by that I mean her inner beauty, and her inner attractiveness, because that is what really shines out.

Relationships built on superficial attraction or pure physicality aren’t going to last. You know that as well as I do. Relationships have to be built on something deeper than looks.

Here’s a video on the subject.


And, having said that, when you project out an attractive personality you look beautiful. That’s what this section of Capture His Heart And Make Him Love You Forever is all about.

So let me give you a few examples of Claire’s advice in this section.

Tips on how you might “wake-up Gorgeous”: tips which come in 8 sections,  so YOU can choose what’s MOST IMPORTANT for you at any time… yes, 8 you get parts in this remarkable new dating advice for women.

Here’s a quote from Claire:

“A woman’s authentic confidence is like catnip for men. It sends them just a little bit happy-crazy. They can’t help themselves! They want to be near you because you make them feel relaxed and zippy at the same time. They’re drawn to you again and again for that fresh dose of energy and joy that comes from just being around you.!

So what’s the key to unlocking your confidence? How about working on that voice of inadequacy that runs a constant stream of negative comments in your head? How about a quick, effective and powerful way of dealing with that sneaky self-destructive inner voice? How about replacing it with a confident fresh voice that will show you up in an attractive positive light?

Sounds good doesn’t it?

Yes, all of the things that you need to actually stop that sneaky little self-destructive voice are revealed by Claire Casey in Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You For Ever.

Your dreams just came true….

The tactics you can use to do this range from amping up your own attributes, using a special mind-calming technique to silence your inner bitch (you know, the one who’s always criticising you), practising some sexy swaggering, and wearing gorgeous underwear.



And there are dozens more: I’m not listing them all here, and particularly not the really hot ones, because to do that will just give away all the secrets that Claire can explain to you, as a woman, better than I can, as a man.

‘Course, what I can tell you is the effect these things have on men.

For generations women have known how to seduce, how to attract, and how to win men.

For me, much of this is just about turning on your inner siren, the woman who’s already inside, but who perhaps hasn’t had the chance to show herself for a while.

And when all’s said and done, it’s women who hold the power in dating and relationships. Just remember that, girl, and then use Claire Casey’s tips to turn yourself into a hot man magnet.

You’re not convinced yet that you’re actually a hot siren, waiting to be unleashed on the male population?

Good! Because author of Catch His Heart and Keep Him Eternally*, Claire Casey, has plenty more dating tips for you. She’s going to tell you, step-by-step, how to:

  • Treat yourself to sensual pleasures that make you feel good.
  • Turn yourself into a temple of sensuous pleasure.
  • Keep yourself healthy and feeling very sexy (she supplies 51 different ideas to choose from — yes, 51!).
  • Indulge yourself so that you feel good about yourself.
  • Attract and seduce a man using nothing but your eyes.
  • Use those naturally feminine body moves that pierce men straight through the heart (you get 19 ideas to choose from here).
  • How to look absolutely great every day, and that includes the parts of yourself you think are ugly or less attractive (check it out, because it’s absolutely true!).
  • Understand and interpret men’s body language, so you know what they’re thinking about you as you talk to them – even when you see them across the room.
  • How to hold a conversation with a man in a way that really keeps him interested – this is what Claire calls conversational gold. I call it clever seduction.
  • Use certain qualities like admiration, empathy, and encouragement to cement the sense of attraction that a man feels for you.
  • And, believe it or not, when you talk to a man whose heart you wish to catch and keep, Claire shows you how to actually name, and understand, his deepest needs, wishes and fears. This will blow him away – no woman will ever have understood him like you do.

I will let a little cat out of the bag here, and just once again reaffirm that Claire knows exactly what she’s talking about: she lists the six main forces that operate in most men (see below). Claire is 100% correct about this. Don’t forget, I’m a male psychotherapist and I know what I’m talking about.  This is what she says:

  • He loves an adventure, and the thrill of the chase
  • Deep down, he’s afraid of failure
  • He’s very much driven by hormones
  • He desperately wants to feel needed and admired as a man
  • Most of the time, he’s very task/goal oriented
  • He’s bad with expressing and understanding complex feelings.

Once you start to understand the forces that are driving men from the inside, you can make them feel like you, and you alone, out of all the women in the world, really understand them. He’ll be yours, seized** and held, forever!

Now imagine the power that YOU are going to acquire. Claire gives you an explanation of how to tap into each of these are fundamental male “drivers”. For each of them she gives you exact tactics and strategies you can use to catch a man – and the impact on a man, when you do this, from your heart, is something greater than you can even begin to imagine.

I’m telling you, plain and simple, if you’re looking for fantastic new dating advice, and information that will keep any relationship going, you absolutely must read this section. It will teach you more about men than a month chatting to your sisters. Seriously.

*”Catch” is better than “capture”, don’tcha think?

**Seize the day – better than holding him prisoner, too, methinks!